৴ Reading ⩊ The Third Option: Hope for a Racially Divided Nation (English Edition) for kids Ᾱ By Miles McPherson ᾋ

৴ Reading  ⩊ The Third Option: Hope for a Racially Divided Nation (English Edition) for kids Ᾱ By Miles McPherson ᾋ ৴ Reading ⩊ The Third Option: Hope for a Racially Divided Nation (English Edition) for kids Ᾱ By Miles McPherson ᾋ The Third Option INTRODUCTION The Third Option N or White Boy Did they just call me the N word School was out, and I rode my bike as fast as I could through the white neighborhood that stood between me and the safety of home My heart pounded as I approached an intersection and faced a red light Please turn green, please turn green, I repeated in my head Just in the nick of time, it did Thank you, God I crossed the street that served as the gateway into my neighborhood, and zoomed down the hill I was ten blocks from home But I couldnt slow down yet In fact, entering my Black neighborhood only meant that Id exited one potential danger zone and entered another Hey, White boy someone called These words shot through my body like adrenaline, making me feel fearful and anxious all over again I flew through the streets I knew so well, trying to outpace the name calling, threats, and insults I didnt slow down until I was two blocks from my house I grew up in a predominantly Black neighborhood called Lake view, in Long Island, New York But from first through eighth grade, I went to school in an all White neighborhood called Malverne At the time, according to my uncle, the one and only black family who moved to Malverne was welcomed warmlywith a burning cross on their front lawn So it is easy to understand why I never felt comfortable there Ocean Avenue ran between Lakeview and Malverne Each time I pedaled across Ocean Avenue, I experienced anxiety On this particular day, I had a legitimate reason to some White kids from Malverne were chasing me out of their neighborhood I was pedaling as fast as I could to outrun their threats of violence So imagine my devastation whenjust as I entered the apparent safe haven of my own neighborhoodI heard the words Hey, White boy As a multiracial kid, I felt like a ping pong ball bouncing between two worlds, never feeling like I completely belonged to either Im what Black people call a high yella brother with good hair To some, that meant I wasnt black enough White boy was the not so affectionate term by which some Black kids in the neighborhood called me The White kids used even less endearing terms to describe me Growing up, I felt like a perpetual outsider Aside from my parents home, where diversity was embraced and celebrated, it seemed like there was nowhere I could go to fit in And though its been decades since my school days in Lakeview, I still experience the same feelings today from time to time that I did back then You may be feeling like I did that day, wondering how you can escape the devastating impacts of racism Maybe youve experienced racism personally, or know someone else who has Maybe you feel like youve been wrongly blamed for racist events that happened long before you were born Maybe you want to learn how to have a conversation about race but youre afraid of saying the wrong thing Maybe youre trying to recover from the shame of being the target or a perpetrator of racism Or maybe youre searching for a way to deal with the race based hate, resentment, and fear you cling to in your heart Whatever your reasons for picking up this book, I commend you for your courage and commitment to tackling racism head on I have struggled with most of the issues listed above, too, and look forward to sharing what Ive learned with you Above all, I want to offer you hope Racial unity is Gods idea, and He promises that if we ask Him for help, He will be faithful to answer us Lets approach God with confidence and vulnerability while we trust him to guide us in tackling this issue together About Me My name is Miles McPherson, and I am the senior pastor of the Rock Church, located in Americas Finest City San Diego, California I am the proud offspring of two Black grandfathers, a half Chinese and half Black grandmother, and a White grandmother I am of mixed race, but I identify myself as Black Consequently, the stories and feelings I share in this book are shared through the lens of a Black man Im also a former NFL player My love affair with football started when I was a kid Every Sunday during football season, my dad, uncles, and neighbors played pickup games in the park Even as a child, when I had the ball in my hands, no one, not even the adults, could catch me At least, thats how I remember it Football came naturally, and I loved every minute that I played, whether in the neighborhood or under stadium lights In my youth I played in Pop Warner leagues, on my high school team, and at the University of New Haven, where I was the schools first all American and its first player to be drafted by and to play in the NFL Playing football helped me cultivate a strong sense of unity with others from an early age Ive always played with guys who represented all ethnicities and socioeconomic backgrounds Going to battle with my teammates created a bond between us that bridged our differences Football is a great tool for teaching us that what is most powerful and valuable about a person is whats on the inside, not the outside Ultimately, it was also football that led me to Jesus Having attended Catholic school all my life, I learned about God at an early age but walked away from religion after the eighth grade One night when I was nineteen years old, while I was standing in a department store waiting for my girlfriend to get off work, two hippies who looked like Charles Manson shared the gospel with me Learning that I was created to have a personal relationship with Jesus rocked my world, and I prayed to receive Christ as my Savior on the spot For about ten days or so, I was in spiritual shock I did not get high on drugs, I stopped having sex, and spent all day wondering what God wanted to do with my life The high I felt from my newfound relationship with Jesus eventually went away Since I didnt know anyone who could guide me in the growth of my faith, I returned to my old ways partying, sleeping around, and living a wild and out of control lifestyle When I joined the San Diego Chargers, I dialed it up even further During my first two years in the NFL, I was a guy gone wild I smoked a lot of marijuana, used cocaine, and chased women But all the while, I watched two of my teammates, Sherman Smith and Ray Preston, from afar Those two Christian men modeled the heart of God and started challenging me to grow in my faith On April 12, 1984, at 5 00 a.m., I was lying on a couch in my apartment, my heart pounding in my chest Id been using cocaine all night I was thinking about what those Jesus loving hippies and my teammates, Sherman and Ray, had said and modeled for me That morning I recommitted my life to Jesus and never touched cocaine or marijuana again I reunited with my old girlfriend later that afternoon, and we were married five months later I played two years with the Chargers and became known as the Jesus guy When my four year career with the Chargers ended, I felt the call of God on my heart to serve in ministry I served as a youth pastor for eight years, and launched Miles Ahead Youth Crusades Tens of thousands of kids, representing all different racial and socioeconomic backgrounds, came to know Jesus personally through the ministries I led and worked in I had finally discovered Gods true purpose for my life Eventually, I took over the Sunday night service at Horizon Christian Fellowship, which grew from six hundred people to over three thousand in five years Again, these services were as diverse as our city The Rock Church, which I later founded and of which I am now pastor, is attended, in person and online, by over twenty thousand people weekly Im proud of the fact that our congregation is as diverse as a bag of Skittles 48 percent White, 28 percent Latino, 14 percent Black, 7 percent Asian, and 3 percent other ethnicities These percentages are neither intentional nor accidental When we launched the Rock Church, my staff and I committed ourselves to reaching everybody in the city We based our commitment on two foundational truths first, that we are all made in the image of God and second, that the church should reflect the reality that all nations will be gathered in heaven To this day, we remain committed to these principles, and have extended our reach to five campuses and thirteen microsites, including one in Tijuana and one at a local juvenile detention center and a state prison Through our online ministry, millions have heard the gospel, and we have recorded over one million decisions for Christ A lifetime of experiencesgrowing up a mixed race kid in a segregated era of our nations history, living in diverse neighborhoods and cities, playing on a diverse NFL team, and pastoring multiethnic congregationshas given me a deeper understanding of Gods heart for his people to live in loving unity My highest calling is to love others the way Jesus calls us to While Ive failed in that endeavor times than I can count, my greatest desire is to grow perfect in love, especially toward those who dont look like me This book is my earnest attempt to help you do the same The stories and perspectives I share are meant to answer the many questions Ive been posed as a Black pastor of a large, urban, multiracial church Well meaning people of all backgrounds want to understand the racial issues that divide our nation, and what they can do to alleviate them This book is my effort at answering their questions and encouraging us to honor each other and ourselves the way God does The Third Option Honor Do you find yourself getting angry or defensive when you think or talk about race Do you look at the racial divide and wish there was a solution Do you, like Rodney King, ask why we all cant get along If so, I want you to know that 1 you are not alone, 2 racism corrupts our souls, 3 culture promotes racism, and 4 theres a Third Option that can set us free Everyone is affected by racism Nearly every American has been a victim or a perpetrator of racism, and most have been both On average, 83 percent of Americans believe racism is a problem in our nation This number has remained steady over the past two decades, with the latest polls showing a spike in the percentage of Americansnow 58 percentwho believe that racism is a big problem.1 You may despise racism, but it affects us all, whether we know it or not It is a corruptor of the soul that degrades and devalues those who look different from us When we allow racism into our hearts and society, we minimize the priceless value of Gods image in others, which limits our ability to honor, love, and serve them the way God calls us to Culture plays a big role in perpetuating racism by wrongly insisting that there are only two options you can choose from us or them Culture pits one group of people against another by promoting a zero sum game mentality that says, You must lose in order for me to win God, however, offers us a Third Option that stands in stark contrast to the two offered by culture Gods Third Option invites us to honor that which we have in common, the presence of His image in every person we meet When we honor the presence of His image in others, we acknowledge their priceless value as precious and beloved of God The Third Option empowers us to see people through Gods eyes, which enables us to treat them in a manner that honors the potential of His image in us Some of the greatest heroes of our faith overcame cultures temptation to buy into the us versus them mentality One example in the Old Testament is Joshua As Joshua prepared for the battle of Jericho, he asked an approaching messenger of the Lord to identify whose side he was on Now when Joshua was near Jericho, he looked up and saw a man standing in front of him with a drawn sword in his hand Joshua went up to him and asked, Are you for us or for our enemies Neither, he replied, but as commander of the army of the Lord I have now come Then Joshua fell facedown to the ground in reverence, and asked him, What message does my Lord have for his servant Joshua 5 13 14 In this passage, the Lords messenger offered Joshua a way out of cultures trap by giving him a Third Option Joshua responded to the presence of God in humility and obedience, and reaped the benefits of Gods blessings in return God personally intervened on Joshuas behalf to deliver him an overwhelming victory at Jericho, because Joshua decided to choose the Third Option Choosing the Third Option in our hearts and culture isnt easy it requires intentionality, a prayerful commitment to obedience, and wholehearted trust in Gods provision But I promise you its worth the effort When we choose the Third Option, God Himself will deliver us from an us versus them mentality that prevents us from honoring the presence of His image in ourselves and in others Works in Progress The Third Option is than a choice its a God given mission that directs us to honor our neighbors the way that God calls us to Culture, on the other hand, asks us to determine whether the issue of race is something we should even concern ourselves with in the first place Culture does this by posing an oversimplified questionAre you a racist and forcing us to choose yes or no in response A small percentage of Americans would answer yes Most of us would say no, because were either unaware of or unwilling to admit our biases, biases that we all have, even if they are subconscious Consequently, were likely to answer no in one of the following ways Defensiveness Im not a racist I may have some biases, but theyre all justified, and that doesnt amount to racism Self righteousness Im not a racist Im a social crusader whos woke Woke is slang for being aware of issues pertaining to racial and social justice Helplessness Im not a racist, and theres nothing I can do about racism in America Apathy Im not a racist, and racism doesnt concern me Uncertainty Im not a racist, and Im not entirely sure what being racist means The Third Option frees us from cultures false dichotomy by offering us the grace we need in order to admit that we are imperfect in our love for others The Third Option opens the eyes of our hearts so that we can acknowledge biases where they exist And the Third Option enables us to define who we want to become, so that we can wholeheartedly pursue our God given mission to love and honor all our neighbors equally The Third Option acknowledges that my biases will do and say racist things, but I can learn to live honorably Me, You, We Ive seen firsthand how racism affects individuals and communities and impacts us in different ways Ive witnessed racism erode our ability to live in unity with others and prevent us from recognizing the loving image of God in ourselves I believe racism can only be conquered when individuals take ownership and responsibility for their own attitudes, words, and actions when anothers experience is understood and honored and when we decide to tackle racism together To illustrate this, I have set up the book in three parts Me, You, and We Me If I want to be an agent for change, I must first purify my own heart Or, as Scripture bluntly says, I must first remove the plank from my own eye before I can see clearly enough to remove the speck from my brothers In this section, well ask God to reveal racial blind spots that prevent us from honoring others, what role we play in perpetuating racism, and what God is calling us to do about it You With the plank removed from my own eye, I can now see you clearly But in order to really understand your experience, I must step out of my comfort zone and into your shoes Walking in anothers shoes is never a comfortable experience, but its essential to understanding their perspective and learning how to honor them In this section, well explore what it feels like to be the other and learn to empathize with those whove been marginalized by racism We Our lives, joys, and burdens are meant to be shared in community As Scripture says, Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor If either of them falls down, one can help the other up Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves A cord of three strands is not easily broken Ecclesiastes 4 912 In this section, well identify ways that we can edify and honor each other as a church, a city, a community, and a country This book will challenge and encourage you to choose the Third Option so that you can achieve an elevated level of honor that is consistent with the priceless value of Gods image in you and your brothers and sisters of all races and ethnicities But in order for real transformation to occur, you must be open to a new level of vulnerability with the Holy Spirit Unity is Gods idea and can only be achieved by the Holy Spirits transformation of our hearts I ask you to join me in prayer as we seek to honor Gods heart for unity Prayer Lord, please prepare my heart for what I am about to read Holy Spirit, just as a seed cannot grow into a plant unless it is planted and dies, please reveal what needs to die in me, so that You may grow a desire in my heart to move past my comfort zone and love others like You love them Holy Spirit, I give you permission to expose that which needs to be transformed in me, and I ask You to change my heart, attitude, and actions for your glory and benefit In the name of our Lord, Amen.The most profound message on reconciliation and healing that I have heard It is a message that needs to be echoed throughout the worldThis is a moment and a movement that you have to be a part of John Gray, Associate Pastor of Lakewood Church The Third Option reveals Gods way for bridging the racial divide honoring the image of God placed in each of us Pastor Miles words will encourage you with a new compassion and new understanding of the heart of God for all people and equip you with the tools to help bring about change Christine Caine, bestselling author and founder of A21 Every believer who wants to follow Christs example and to love our neighbors as ourselves must read this book Chris Hodges, Senior Pastor of Church of the Highlands and author of Fresh Air and The Daniel Dilemma In a time where our country seems divided racially and politically than at any other in recent history, we need a voice of reason to bring us to a place of understanding I believe that Miles McPherson is that voiceI cant stress enough how important this work is and hope that it becomes a central part of the conversation going forward Get the book, devour the concepts and be part of the change Greg Surratt, Founding Pastor of Seacoast Church and President of the Association of Related Churches ARC The Third Optionis exactly what we need to be reminded of This is how JESUS wants us to live Rather than separate 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    • 272 pages
    • The Third Option: Hope for a Racially Divided Nation (English Edition)
    • Miles McPherson
    • Anglais
    • 2016-09-24T09:18+03:00